To cultivate strong relationships, it’s crucial to prioritize self-care. Taking care of yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally allows you to bring the best version of yourself in relationships. Pay attention to your needs and engage in activities that promote your well-being.

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Toxic thoughts are self-destructive. It draws us away from happiness, drains us, and keeps us stagnated in rumination. We can’t control our thoughts but we can control what we do with them. Let me show you how.

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Now that you have gotten the FREE Guide, It’s time to Master your Monthly Self-Care Strategies within a year, and find Fulfillment in your Marriage and Relationships


The answer is simple; place an order for a copy of “A self-Care Help Guide: Healthy You, Healthy Relationships “

This is a guide to achieving optimal self-care. It uses a monthly system as a strategy to break down the process of acquiring good self-care. Every month has a specific focus on self-care to be achieved, and many ideas are included to help the reader discover their own unique idea of self-care. This book also goes into detail about the importance of self-care and how it affects relationships, especially for married couples. We all need healthy relationships, however, a healthy relationship starts with a healthy You!


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The book Healthy You, Healthy Relationships is a manual for practicing the best self care. It employs a monthly schedule as a tactic to deconstruct the acquisition of optimal self-care. Every month has a distinct goal for practicing self-care, and numerous suggestions are provided to assist the reader in coming up with their own special definition of self-care. In-depth discussion of the value of self-care and how it affects relationships, particularly in married couples, is provided in this book. All of us desire healthy relationships, but a healthy relationship begins with a healthy You! In our journey through life, relationships play a vital role in our overall happiness and well-being. Whether it’s with our romantic partners, family members, friends, or colleagues, it contributes significantly to our personal growth and fulfillment. However, it’s important to recognize that the foundation of any healthy relationship begins with a healthy you.
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Do you have unrealistic expectations of your spouse?

Unrealistic expectations lead to disappointments. have a conversation with your significant other about your expectations and make sure you both feel heard and fulfilled in the relationship.

A big part of having a successful relationship is maintaining reasonable expectations. So, as you communicate, don’t forget to listen. Don’t just hear your spouse, Listen!. if you don’t know the difference get a copy of the book, and read the blogs on my website:

Try these strategies to keep yourself motivated through challenging times with your partner:

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Secrets to a Happy Marriage


Have realistic expectations


Be Quick to Apologize and Quick to Forgive


Conflict Is Not The Problem. You Are!


Laugh together.

One of the standout features of this book is its emphasis on personalized self-care. Rather than prescribing a one-size-fits-all approach, the author provides a range of ideas and strategies for readers to explore and discover what works best for them. From mindfulness practices to physical exercise, there is something for everyone in this book

I highly recommend the book "Healthy You, Healthy Relationships" for anyone who is looking to improve their overall wellbeing and cultivate healthier relationships. This book is a comprehensive guide to achieving optimal self-care through a monthly system that breaks down the process into manageable and achievable steps."

So, are you ready to discover yourself worth again?

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Ifeoma firmly believes that marriage should be Enjoyed not Endured, and her passion is grounded in keeping families together. Ifeoma enjoys helping couples find fulfillment in their marriage/relationships, hence, she founded Thrive Mediation for Couples, LLC, where she provides relationship coaching resources and services for families, couples, and women. Ifeoma’s goal is to equip couples with the tools they need to thrive in their marriage/relationships. 


Her journey as an Occupational Therapist to a Relationship Coach, Couples Mediator and Life Coach, is one guided by a passion that resonates from seeing how broken homes affect children and their future. Ifeoma received her degree in Occupational Therapy from The Ohio State University, where She received extensive training in psychology, psychiatry, and physical disabilities. Ifeoma has been practicing Occupational Therapy for more than 16 years. She also secured a Masters in Pastoral Counseling with a concentration in family and marriage counseling from Liberty University where she graduated with highest honors. Ifeoma is happily married to a wonderful man for over a decade, and they have two energetic boys together.

Let me help you find the joy and gratification that comes with sharing your life with a lifelong partner. I can’t wait to help you thrive in your Marriage/Relationships.

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Frequently Asked Questions

The book covers a range of topics related to self-care and healthy relationships, including why self-care is important, how to develop a self-care routine, and how self-care affects relationships. It also provides ideas and strategies for achieving self-care, as well as tips for building and maintaining healthy relationships.

This book is for married couples, or those in a relationship who feel they are giving 100%, but get no reciprocity. It is for anyone who feels drained by their relationship, and see no replenishment in sight. This book is for those who want to rekindle and understand their value again. This book is for those who want to Love, and be Loved.

Healthy You, Healthy Relationships is a guide specifically made for those who want to find themselves again. The book is designed in a way that makes achieving optimal self-care simple and easy. One core area of self care is assigned to each month, and the reader uses that month to master that area of selfcare, making it a part of their lifestyle and routine. By the end of a year the reader’s life will be transformed in a way that not only strengthens their relationships for the better but also sheds light on what’s most important to them.

No, the book is not only for married couples. While it does emphasize the importance of self-care for couples in a relationship, the strategies and ideas in the book can be applied to anyone who wants to improve their self-care and their relationships.

Yes, the book provides many ideas and strategies for achieving self-care, including ideas for practicing self-care at home, at work, and in social situations. The book also encourages readers to discover their own unique ideas for self-care.

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